Communication Coach

Speed dating gives you seven minutes. Slow dating events in Bangkok give you 15–25 minutes per conversation with fewer people. Here's what the format involves, who runs it, and whether it suits you.

Most people who are single don't want to be. They want a relationship. They're willing to work for one. And yet the numbers keep moving in the wrong direction: fewer marriages, lower birth rates, more people in their 30s and 40s cycling through situationships that go nowhere.

There is an acting exercise that strips human interaction down to its bare structure. It comes from the training methodology of professional theater — specifically, a full year of training devoted to a single drill called the game of please-no. One person can only say "please." The other can only say "yes" or "no" — and always starts from "no."