Dating Strategy

Every man pays. The only variable is how much, and the more she wants you the steeper your discount. That is the whole game, and it means the number you should be defending is the one before the first date: zero.

At a speed dating event, your goal isn’t to close the deal — it’s to spark curiosity. The more you linger after a strong interaction, the more you risk lowering your perceived value. Here’s why less talking can actually increase your chances of getting a match.

Speed dating gives women a structured way to screen men quickly, compare live interactions, and avoid wasting time on weak prospects. The real value is not just meeting men. It is making cleaner decisions with less overinvestment.